Divorce should not be a fight, but don't overlook the fact that a divorce is a legal battle, of sorts. Consequently, being too nice or open with your ex can backfire on you. While you don't want a contentious divorce, you do want to protect and keep your interest at their forefront; learn why it's important to do so.
Require a Fair Share
Unless you and your partner are wealthy, you can expect some level of change to your finances after a divorce.